Leaving the nest

I’ve been apartment shopping for a week now. I know! I am not financially able to consider the possibility of moving out of my parents home. But the thought is nice. Everyone is out there living independently and I’m over here begging for ten dollars just to wash my clothes. I can handle living on my own, I just need a real income. (I work part time at a clothing store)

However, I’ve established my credit. I’ve had my credit card since I was 18 and I have been paying on it to build my credit. Only now its different, because my mother is helping me with some of those payments while I’m in school. I envy those who have left the nest, because I still have to hear “Where, Who, When, Why”. Doesn’t it matter? I’m grown.

I’ve had a wonderful home life, but its annoying keeping up this front with them. I get noise when I lock my door..seriously? Why can’t I lock my door..I’m 20. What’s off limits to me, that I would want to do alone in the house with yall? Exactly.And its not like I have a history of doing reckless things, I’m the good child lol. But what can I do until then except wait?

Patience is a virtue.

xoxo TiffaneyDanielle

Im gettin mine..lets see you get yours!

I have never been a fan of putting people down, because of their job.  But I can say that if we are going to get into a relationship, then our salaries must atleast match. This may sound like I’m being a gold digger, but that’s not the case at all. My home will be in good neighborhood. I will be able to leave my chairs outside without worrying that they will be stolen. I will be able to run early in the morning with no reason to carry any weapon..(pretty much like a neighborhood I’m in now) I can’t have champagne taste with a beer budget. I do not want to live paycheck to paycheck, because that’s not the comfortable way of living. I don’t want to feel like I’m treating someone to everything because they don’t have the funds for it.
This is a sensitive subject for many, because the old way of thinking was that a man was supposed to bring home more money than the woman. I say old way of thinking because now a days we women are pretty serious about getting that paper. And with men knowing this, they get upset and complain about how they don’t get any play because were BALLIN! And they’re just scraping by.

Question: Would you jump into a serious relationship with someone if they made a $10,000 less than you? $15,000? Why?

My answer: It depends. If he is in a job that needs experience to earn more money then yes, not a raise at Burger King but a real raise as in several thousand.

And by job I mean career. Many people don’t understand that a job is temporary, while a career is what you can see yourself doing the rest of your life..which more than likely requires a degree. But don’t get me wrong there are jobs that are very successful that don’t require a degree to have you BALLIN OUTTA CONTROL lol.

Question: Would you date someone without a college degree?

My answer: Yes, if they had a successful career.

Now what are your answers?
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xoxo TiffaneyDanielle’

Sneaky Bitches!

Yesterday at work this bitch tried to sabotage my ass…but she’s dumb so it didnt work. She told my manager that some girl walked out the store with a whole bunch of clothes under her shirt and that I wasnt paying attention to catch her.

1. Who the hell is wearing a winter coat for me not to see a whole bunch of clothes under a shirt. It was 87 degrees yesterday..so that means everyone was wearing minimal clothing. How do you steal clothes..a whole bunch..while wearing a tube top and a mini skirt. Now I could see if she said they put the clothes in their bag..but she said under their shirt?

2. She said a lady came in and told her a girl just walked out the store with a whole bunch of clothes and she could see them falling out under the bottom. Its clear that I want to smack this bitch at this point. So she’s saying not only did the girl who wore either a tank top, tube top, or regular fitting shirt stole a whole bunch of clothes..but now she’s saying that the clothes were hanging from the bottom and I didnt see them. The lies get worse everytime she opens her filthy mouth.

3. The alarm didnt go off. Thats why I was confused about this whole situation. So if the alarm didnt go off then that would mean that there must be a whole bunch of censors left in the store from the whole bunch of clothes that were stolen. I found two censors in the back of the store..the part that the sneaky bitch was supposed to be watching. Hmm..thats ironic.

4. The managers call me to the back to talk to me. What did they say? “Dont worry about it, i know you were doing your job. I got a feeling that lil bitch is lieing anyway to try to get brownie points” -Manager 1
“I know for a fact the alarm didnt go off, dont worry about her. I watched you a few times before when the alarm went off, so I know you know what to do”- Manager 2

5. Then the sneaky bitch tried to be my friend the rest of the night. She was talking about the managers and just gossiping. Does she think I go to Howard because im stupid? Obviously she does, but she got the wrong one. Try to tarnish my name and work ethic? Payback is my cousin..so I hope she’s ready.

xoxo TiffaneyDanielle’